Could you be making the mistake of trying to rebuild your life with broken pieces from the past?

Source: David Ritter

Source: David Ritter

Let’s get real…

Someone just threw a rock through your living room window.

Their not done! They run around to the back of the house and smash your bedroom windows, and they bash in that beautiful bay window you’ve just had installed.

How do you feel? Shocked? Scared? Pissed?

You call the police. Your statement is taken, and a report will be written up.

Now what? You have broken windows throughout your home, and your dwelling is vulnerable.

Since we’re talking in hypotheticals, you CAN’T have a repair man come out and fix these windows. You CAN’T call on your spouse, neighbor, or best friend. It’s YOU fixing the problem.

It’s 2:30pm on Sunday. Time is tickin’

What are you going to do?

You pause for a few minutes and decide to take a taxi to Home Depot. (“A taxi?” Sorry, your medical condition doesn’t allow you to drive.)

You get to Home Depot and start wandering about the store.

The intimidating vastness of Home Depot is upon you. You run into a customer service rep, and they direct you to the hardware aisle.

Staring back at you are foreign objects known as charcoal fiberglass screens, steel patio foot rollers, splash guards. What the heck? Where are the windows?

Unfortunately, you’re not going to walk down a prefabricated aisle called __________ (insert your name here) window repair aisle.

You will need tools and materials such as putty knife, paint brush, glazing compound, etc.

You simply wanted shiny new panes of glass and easy assembly instructions.

I know what your thinking.  “Get to the point! What does this have to do with the broken pieces of my life?” Hang with me, this is a journey we’re taking, not the destination.

Did it EVER ONCE cross your mind, that in order to repair your broken windows, you would have to pick up EACH PIECE of glass and reassemble it?

“Did she just say to pick up EACH PIECE of BROKEN glass and reassemble the windows with super glue glass adhesive?”

That would be crazy, wouldn’t it?

You understood there was a place that housed tools and materials that would aid you in repairing your broken windows.

It may have occurred to you, like those windows, you feel broken. Something outside of your control has left you shattered and vulnerable.

You’re ready to move forward and repair, but your trying to REASSEMBLE a life with the broken pieces from your past.

It’s going to take NEW tools and NEW materials to REBUILD the broken pieces of your life.

Much love,
Marissa

PS: “What are these new life tools and materials you speak of that will repair my life?” I’m not ashamed to say… I have NO CLUE.  I JUST realized I was trying to rebuild my life with broken pieces from the past. To be continued…

The Spin Sisters Podcast: Episode #1- Grief & Loss

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Woman clenching face with hands on head

July 2, 2013

Kicking off the first episode of The Spin Sisters Podcast! We don’t jump into the trenches, we dive head first! We attempt to tackle the heavy topic of chronic illness and the stages of grief and loss that often suffocates a chronically ill person like a wool winter blanket.

Show notes:

VEDA
Yahoo Sport Article- Dana White Says PRP Therapy Helps Inner Ear Disorder
Orthokine- Wikipedia

Orthogen clinic: 
http://www.wehling-hartmann.de/wir-ueber-uns/
http://www.orthogen.ch/en/index.htm

Facebook pages/forums:
VEDA
Dizziness Blues
Dizzy World Cafe
Migraine-associated vertigo forums
Labyrinthitis.org.uk

Grief & Loss:
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross foundation
List of books by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Seven Choices: Finding daylight after loss shatters your world 
5 Stages of grief shared from the perspective of a physician living with Meniere’s Disease

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With Love,
Marissa & Jane

PS: Please list the resources you have found helpful!